This is my first time blogging so here goes...I am filled with such anger and hurt that I decided rather than lash out at my husband who doesn't deserve all of my rage - LOL - I would write about it on a blog. 
I have been through many different situations in my life that I consider myself to be an "expert" on a few of them because, usually, I ended up without the result I wanted after spending considerable time and money on the "issue at hand" and my refusal to accept the outcome so I did more research, invested more time and more money until I had exhaused all of my resources and compromised my sanity! But I'm still here and I hope that some of what I write about will help anyone out there who has gone through same or similar, or who may avoid making some mistakes that I have made.  I wonder...what good can come out of learning a valuable lesson on a particular subject when you know that you will never need that information again?   The ONLY thing I can think of is to put it out there to share with as many people as possible.